It can be hard to broach certain sexual topics even with those we love unconditionally. Knowing if our partners are going to be interested in being extremely kinky in the bedroom or whether our deepest fantasies may make them run a mile is not always easy to ascertain and often both partners will keep their innermost fantasies to themselves.
However, there are plenty of ways to shake things up in the bedroom, and if your sex life has started to go somewhat stale it should be easier than ever to start letting your desires come out. Many people do not wish to admit how extreme they would like to be in the bedroom for fear of being judged, even (or especially) by their partner. However, when things start to go stale it is easy to buy sex toys and say that you merely want to shake things up.
As such, from humble beginnings, it is likely to be easy to go from simple vibrators to anal toys if that is something that has always interested you, or to buy sex toys that are more and more extreme to allow you to live out the fetishes you happen to have.
Rather than simply telling your partner all your innermost desires, taking things a step at a time is likely to be by far the best approach. By shaking things up in the bedroom a little bit you can easily open up the floodgates and allow yourselves to both open up bit by bit and to finally be as sexual as you truly wish to be.
Finding that things are going stale is likely to actually show that the two of you really are not doing what you really want to in the bedroom and is actually likely to be a very useful first step in you both opening up. And, whether you want anal toys to play with or simply wish to be trussed up and dominated, once you both truly open up, things are never likely to go stale again.