Are you tired of being overlooked online? Sick of uploading endless photos only to find that no one seems to care who you are, and you can still never seem to get a date? It doesn’t have to be that way. Here are some tips to help you get noticed on dating Websites, even free dating sites.
The best thing you can do to get noticed on dating Websites is to be honest. You may thing that vamping up your descriptions, adding little white lies, and only posting your most “sexy” photos (maybe even ones you’ve altered or photos of other people) will get you more attention, but the truth is if you want a real date and a chance to develop a true relationship, the best place to start is always honesty. No one is going to want to go out with you again if they find out you lied.
Next, choose photos that make you look like a normal person. Even if you think you are very attractive and sexy, this can be intimidating to someone who may love you as a person but be afraid of you because you seem better than them. If you want to find your soul mate, you should be approachable. And it should be your soul you want to show off, not your body.
Look at some free dating sites and put up a profile with two or three good photos and leave it at that. Write a friendly, approachable description of you—what you like to do in your spare time, your favourite music, your dream career, etc. Then, ask a couple of questions. People are more likely to take interest in you if you first show that you are openly interested in getting to know other people. ]
Finally, be friendly and polite. Rudeness and snobbery can be very off-putting, especially online when you only have a few seconds to make an impression.
